▶ Your Answer :No matter what other people think, I
personally believe that people should focus on their own happiness for several
reasons. First, one can focus better on other’s happiness, if he or she is
happy. Second, one can be burn out to focus on other’s happiness
To begin with, people should focus on their
own happiness first. If they are not happy or do not seek their happiness
first, they will not be able to focus on other’s happiness properly. As a
result, they can be jealous to others or even depressed if they are not happy. My
one episode can be one example of that. I’m a kind of person who is willing to
help others if they’re in trouble. And I want all the people around me to be
happy. This made me care others first and me next. So, I helped spontaneously my
friends even when they did not need help. And I found that all the effort I put
in didn’t make people happy, rather awkward sometimes. After noticing that, I
was depressed and lost confidence. So, nowadays, I’m trying to find what makes
me happy, and focusing on me. As a result, I got confidence and smile again.
Second of all, the criterion of happiness
is different respectively. One can find happiness when he or she spends time
with friends or family. On the other hand, other can feel happy when he or she
reads book or plays sports. It looks like really tough and hard to focus on
other people’s happiness. Therefore, focusing on other people’s happiness may
lead one to be burn out.
In conclusion, If one focuses on own
happiness, he or she can focus better on other’s happiness. Also, one can avoid
being burning out from focusing on other people’s happiness. In this regard, I
believe that people should focus on their own happiness. |