▶ Your Answer :Agree
Some people say that moving to a new city is better way for making strong bonds with old friend. However, in my opinion, I think that changing a living area is able to broke up friendship with original peers because it makes difficulties in contacting each other and reduce their own time get along with.
To begin with,there is a saying ' If bodys had gone, mind could gone'. As the saying said, If friends apart from each other, keeping in toughing is much harder because they could not stay in deep interaction. To be specific, I will illustrate my experience. When I was a elementary school students, I moved several times to differnt cities. At the fitst time, I tried to keep in contact with my old friends but after all we could not contact contineously. This is because we were young so we didn't know about the importance of calling and we had been busy due to stuying in school. Finally, I lost many freind's adress and phone number so we had a lot of gap within our affection.
On top of that, if one of a peer move to another city, that person and a friend's common point would be lessen. Usually, friends are able to closer when they share their time by enjoing hobbbies and making conversations about common interests. For example, there was a poll conducted by the Board of Korea education to determine whether the distance within friends could affect on their bond. The researchers tracked 200 students' habits about meeting friends during a 3 year priode. What they found was intriging, An overwhelming 82% of respondants meet the friends who lives in near location and the reason is that they can share their common hobbies and enjoy casual connections. This survey shows that thr friends who lives closer place can be feel more sycholosically closer. So they can feel more friendly.
To sum up, moving to far area can make people lose their friend due to two reaons; by contacting each other scarsly and weekning the common aspects. In this regarde I strongly belive that transfering a living area can be harmful to people because they will lost their the colsest friends. |